My ex and I are getting back together. I broke up with him a while back because he had moved to another state and I couldn't handle the distance (plus he was being a serious jerk) anyway, things changed and I think the second time around will work. When I first started talking to him again, he was with another girl. He said things weren't working out with her anyway and they were gonna break up soon. Anyway, they've broken up now and he's single. He has this thing for asking people out in person so he hasn't asked me out yet.. I don't mind because I don't wanna put up with all my friends and family telling me how much of a 'bad decision' it is (when I broke up with him, naturally, I vented and everyone thought he was an asshole anyway). But I'm still concerned. Lots of girls have crushes on him, he's sexy af, he's got a great sense of humor, hes handsome, he's a fighter, he's gorgeous, wants to join the army.. Did I mention he's good looking? XD he has lots of friends who are girls and I'm concerned I'm not the only girl he whispers sweet nothings to. I have trust issues and this whole situation is really hard. I'm not gonna leave him again, I know he has feelings for me but he's still got lots of gorgeous friends and I'm a potato and technically he's single.. If I tried telling him the things I just said, he'd probably get pissed that I don't trust him (he hasn't quite grasped that I have trust issues) I don't know how to handle this and I've cried myself to sleep more times than I care to mention. Please don't judge me, I know I'm not the brightest 17-yr-old out there but I'd really really really appreciate all the advice I can get