My roommate is sending nudes to my ex and it makes me feel uncomfortable and a little angry. Should I tell her?

Question

I don't really have feelings for my ex, I actually want him to move on because I did. I just don't feel uncomfortable with any of my friends dating him. I'm not sure if that's irrational, but it really bothers me that my roommate is sending him nudes. If it was a girl I didn't know personally sending him nudes, I wouldn't have a problem. (The reason why I know is because my ex and I are friends. He tells me EVERYTHING.)

Answer

I totally get this, it's because it will change you and your friends relationship. The dynamic will put you at an out since they will hang out and you'll have to deal with relationship problems between the two of them (if/when they have any). Also I would feel a little disrespected. I don't know if you would, but I feel like exes and roommates shouldn't mix. If you guys dated for a long time, she definitely crossed a line. But if you guys dated for like, a month and both mutually decided the relationship wasn't for you, I'd still tell her like, "Hey, this bothers me and this is why it bothers me. Please don't come to me with your relationship problems." (Unless you don't mind) but I get getting whizzed  out. He had the potential to be your future life partner/husband.

My roommate is sending nudes to my ex and it makes me feel uncomfortable and a little angry. Should I tell her?

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