I was reading an article posted the other day by an ex-stripper and it really helped me to validate my feelings about this topic. I was never comfortable with the idea of my bf or future fiancé going to a strip club for his bachelor party but I felt so insane saying no because I didn't want to be seen as controlling or insecure. But this woman she said that she's seen some crazy not okay stuff happen during bachelor parties, even at very reputable clubs and that if you're not ok having your future husband go lust over other naked women then that is 100% acceptable and anyone who tells you that you need to be okay with it is just a form of manipulation. And I guess I'm not so much against strip clubs as I am against going to them for a bachelor party. I don't want my boyfriend to be going out and paying large amounts of money to look at naked girls because it's his last taste of freedom, I'd want him to be happy about getting married and not feel the need to go get a lap dance from another woman. There's a lot more this woman said but I don't want to make this too long. What are your opinions? And if your SO didn't go to a strip club what did they do instead? (Not trying to make girls feel bad who's SOs went to a strip club I just personally would be chill with it).