I started having pretty consistent hookups with this guy well call him "Ben" that was the "big brother" in a fraternity to my best friend "Todd" who I had also previously slept with. 

Adter about six months of only hooking up with Ben I came back from winter break and went to a party at the fraternity. We ended up sleeping with each other that night and nothing unusual had happened. It the next morning he told everyone I had raped him, to get me blacklisted. The accusation ruined my life, I almost killed myself failed that semester and decided to leave the university. He's since admitted to several people that he lied but has never said it to me or apologized. 

There are still days that are so hard for me because I know there are people out there that have permanently labeled me a "rapist" 

Moral of the story girls this kind of an accusation destroys lives, so take it seriously never lie about it but never be afraid to stand up for yourself if it truly did happen.