So this might sound incredibly silly or even pitiful, but I want to know what to expect from the right guy after he learns you've been through sexual abuse. I was molested by my older brother and two of my cousins for 7 years as a child(2-9). I am now 19 and I'm way past forgiveness and healing. I obviously still struggle with problems that I know I will always have from my childhood, but I'd like to say that I'm in a very good place at this point. I'm just wondering what standards a girl should set for a guy who has committed to loving her after she's been through this. What should I expect from the right guy? And what are the red flags for the wrong guy? Like I said, this might make me sound measley, but I just want to make sure I'm never settling for less than I deserve. Thank you ❤