So.. I'm now 25, my husband and I got married in August 2016. We've been together 4 years, after the first year I went off birth control.. basically letting God hand take the wheel. We have been financially comfortable and settled so if a baby came along, we were more than ok with it! Well for the last year we have been actively trying with no luck. When I try to express my frustration and hurt to my family all they have to say is "there's no rush" orrrr things like "your still in your 20's, you shouldn't worry about it". Just CONSTANTLY trying to make it into no big deal, like it's not important that they have grand children or nieces/nephews, that we have a CHILD. I'm sorry I want my kids by the time I'm 30... I've just never wanted kids after 30. We've done things "right" in their eyes, we're finically ready, we own a beautiful home, have great jobs, we're happily married.. I just get so damn frustrated that I'm the only one who cares that we're having problems getting pregnant!!! 😡