Being black only dating white men. Why so hard!?

Gabrielle
So I'm a black woman, I grew up in a predominantly white area and so as a result I have a ton of white friends and only date white men. The thing is its so hard. It's hard to meet decent guys in general and then to not have them say something dumb like "oh I've never been with a black girl, but I heard they are the best sex" ugh but I'm a little desperate so I will ignore those stupid comments. The thing is I follow a lot of interracial dating apps and sites and there are always so many beautiful black women with really hot white guys. I don't know what I'm supposed to do I mean I think I'm pretty I think I should be able to find a good attractive guy, I have my life so much together you know? Idk if it's just the area I live in? Idk I mean I don't want to be some white guys black girl fetish, at the same time I'm only interested in dating white men, maybe Hispanic and/or Italian. I'm also really pretty light skinned and I know a lot of the guys I've seen who date black women date natural dark skinned ones but I mean there has to be someone!?