Masterbating help??!?!?!?!

Mindy
Ok so I'm 14 and my mom found out I masterbate (yea I know I'm probs too young ) so she told my aunt and now they don't leave me alone about it ... And she also thinks that just because I masterbate I would end up having sex with my boyfriend (obviously not because even if j did or he did Im not like that plus I would wait till I was older) so it's like she lost trust in me what should I do??? Also in what ways can I masterbate that don't involve a dildo??