spice it up

ladies i need help.I want to spice up our sex life a little problem is when i finish i get bored and i want him just to hurry it up....And we seem to always have the same position going on (me on top) what is der i can do to make it a little more exciting.What positions are the best something different and nothing that has to do wth me being flexible cz tht wont work.What kind of foreplay is best...kissing and touching i know.If u can help with some advice id appreciate it